Author: Joshi Haskell
What Every Child Needs!
What is it that every child needs that parents don’t seem to have? (Life time passes to
Disney World and unlimited shoe budgets don’t count!) You can fill in your own blanks.
It is something that a Montessori school can help offer. Of course a good education
comes to mind but that is not even the greatest gift your Montessori school can offer.
What your child needs most is one of the attributes that makes a Montessori school so
special. Yes, it is a safe place emotionally; a challenging place intellectually; and a caring
place socially. It is designed for your child and populated with adults who care. These are
all good things but not the greatest thing your child receives. And your final answer is?
Time! Time is our most treasured commodity – we always seem to be running out of it.
We always seem to be talking about “making” time for things when in reality we need to
“take” time – making it a priority. And to make it even more challenging for us, it is not
just “time” but what you do with time that creates its value.
With time an acorn becomes an oak, a tadpole becomes a frog, a caterpillar becomes a
butterfly and a child becomes — What? We are prone to say “an adult” but even that is
not the ultimate destination of time. It is what you do with time!
If time were the only factor an acorn would become a bigger acorn, a tadpole a
bigger tadpole etc. but it is time and attention (what you do with time) that begins
this extraordinary transformation. Your child is already DNA’d with the marvelous
characteristics of who they are to become – right-handed, left-handed, artist, musician,
scientist, doctor or Indian chief. It takes time (and observation) for these unique character
qualities to blossom and become apparent. And that is what your school does – is to take
time to know your child, to take time to open the world of learning and to take time to
watch your child grow and learn and to be transformed.
If your child doesn’t have time to develop and there is no one there to observe and
encourage development then your child may miss the opportunity to create the person he
or she was designed to be. A Montessori school gives children time to discover – not only
the marvels outside of themselves but the marvels of their personality and passions within
themselves. Montessori offers a child a window on the world and time to take it all in. It
takes time to flourish.
There is no need to rush learning. The Montessori secret is that given enough time
children will learn everything they need. And given enough time they will joy in the
discoveries because they will not be pressed for time and they will go on to master what
they have learned.
So how do we deal with the pressure of time in regard to our children? Take a deep
breath! In fact, you may need to take many of them as you set your clocks back
figuratively and literally. Figuratively, scale back your time expectations for your child.
Being the first to walk, the first to talk, the first to read or the first whatever has nothing
to do with the marathon of life. It takes time to build a solid foundation. The gift of time
doesn’t mean you lower your goals and expectations. It means you give them the gift
of time to be children; the gift of time to explore and discover; the gift of time to make
mistakes, to recover and to learn from those mistakes. Give them time to discover their
strengths and passions. Give them time to build the adult they will become.
Take another deep breath and set your clocks back literally. You have a choice – you can
do for your children (and make them dependent) or you can give them more time (more
time than it certainly would take you) to get dressed, brush their teeth, eat breakfast, feed
the dog, clean their room etc. Part of time is patience – or is that patience is a part of
time?
They want to do it for themselves. They want to become independent. Give them the
time to achieve the ability to be independent (self-governing, self-ruling) and to do that
you have to give them the gift of more time. The ability to do things for yourself, to
accomplish, and to finish the task is what builds real confidence and real self-esteem.
A Montessori school is successful because it is governed by the observation of the child’s
needs and not the pressure to achieve according to the clock or the calendar. When the
teacher does not seem to share your concern over your child’s progress it is not from a
lack of concern but out of experience and observation knowing that given the time your
child will blossom and learn all that is needed.
The great gift of childhood is the gift of time!
Edward Fidellow
www.crossmountainpress.com
Halloween Carnival 2014
An MCS Family shares their story
Upcoming Adopt-A-Native-Elder Rug Show, Deer Valley, Utah 2014
“Weaving all begins with a string, and the string tells a story. For the base of the loom is the earth, and the crest of the loom is the Sky; and there is rain, sunlight, thunder, lightening and roots in between. With weaving, and with everything in our culture, there is a purpose.”
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Each year we have the opportunity to take a field trip to the Navajo Rug Show and visit with our Grandmother Elvira and other Native Elders. It is our tradition to invite our 3rd year students in Early Childhood and Lower Elementary to join us on this occasion in honoring these special women and men. This is a wonderful event and tradition, hosted by the Deer Valley Resort in support of the “Adopt-A-Native-Elder” non-profit organization.
The purpose of this yearly event is to observe the traditions of our Native Elders, and to show support to our own Grandmothers as we join in the celebration of their traditional living and centuries-old skills. Through storytelling and music, jewelry making, and of course, the extraordinary artistry that is weaving; together we can appreciate the truly remarkable traditions of our Native Elders.
In preparation for this special event our school has a tradition of collecting items for our Navajo Grandmothers. The items they most appreciate include: Coffee, Chicken Ramen, Tea, Quaker Oats, Meal, Salt, Spam, Baking Powder, Jello, Sugar, Peanut Butter, Canned Fruits, Veggies, and Soups, Graham Crackers, Spaghetti, Cornflakes, Pasta Noodles, Shortening, Household Items, Toiletries, Clothing, Tools, and VISA Gift Cards. VISA Gift cards are especially lovely, as our Grandmothers do not have a lot of space in their vehicles to bring items back to their home. They can also use the gift cards to purchase the much-needed firewood to heat their homes through the winter.
This year they are also asking for gently used children’s school supplies such as backpacks and winter clothing such as gloves, hats, coats, etc. If you would like to make a donation you may place your items in one of the bins that will be in the hallways over the next couple of weeks.
Read this beautiful excerpt written by Kellie Gibson, an MCS teacher, about last years Rug Show:
As we entered the gallery, we began our journey together and found ourselves surrounded by rich colors and warm hearts. While we took in the beauty of each hand-woven rug, we listened to the stories and legends of the Dine people and learned about their traditional way of life. We heard songs from some of the attending Elders, and as we listened, another group of Elders showed us the steps that are taken to create a traditional rug. It was truly an educational experience to witness first hand the life cycle of wool; as it is cut, carded and twisted into yarn, then dyed, and skillfully and artfully woven into a magnificent, authentic Navajo rug.
After the program, we went to visit with our own Grandmother Elvira. Each year she makes the long journey from her home and family in Arizona to participate in all of the activities at the Deer Valley Rug show and a very important part of her time in Utah is the opportunity to visit with our MCS children. Grandmother Elvira spoke to the children, and told them that they were her own Grandchildren. She spoke to them in love, saying that she prays for each of them, that they will be healthy and grow big and be happy. She then presented us with a gift of Cedar Beads, meant to protect us and create harmony with nature. The children made a gift to her also, cards and drawings that we collected and presented in a large pink valentine. She held it close to her heart, and gave her blessing to the children. Grandmother Elvira and the other Native Elders have so much to teach us. Through their stories, we can learn to be brave, to be passionate, to be grateful and to love.
It has been our opportunity as a school to support our Navajo Grandmothers by way of our annual food drive and proceeds from our Spring Fun-Run. These donations go far in providing firewood throughout the winter, grocery certificates, and Walmart certificates that allow them to purchase basic necessities such as clothing and household items and even yarn for weaving beautiful rugs that are sold to provide further income.
We were so happy to visit with our Grandmother Elvira. Our students have created sent special cards and letters for our Grandmother Emma as well and they will be send to her, along with some gifts at Christmas time.
This year we have had to bid a loving farewell to our Grandmother Rosaline who died at the age of 94. We think of her often and wish her family well.
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As we return from a holiday marked by tradition and thanksgiving, we wanted to share our experience with all of our MCS families. We are grateful for the opportunity to give, to love and appreciate, to teach our students and our children the importance of knowing the world’s people, the needs of others, and the importance of family. In truth, we are all connected by the uniquely lived-in fibers of humanity. We can grow as human beings, and we can cultivate the human spirit if we are able to identify with one another, share our gifts and love.
A special thanks to all of our parents, students, teachers and staff who made this field trip possible, and a great success. In the words of Kindergartener, Carolyn Altman: “It was a hit!”
Upcoming COEEF Event
Things are coming together nicely here
Hello MCS Families,
Things are coming together nicely here at the school. We are still working out some details but are really looking forward to the students return on Monday. Again, we can not express enough our appreciation for all of the offers to assist. And, we want you to know that the teachers at the school have worked tirelessly to prepare temporary classrooms, to support one another, and to keep the energy positive and uplifting. Our teachers are amazing!
- We are looking for an old washer and dryer that can be used to clean our mops and some carpets that were submerged in water. Please contact the office if you are getting rid of any old machines that the school could use temporarily.
- Thank you to all who attended Parent Teacher Conference last week. We were so excited to launch our online record keeping system, Compass, which will allow you to get activity reports about your child’s school experience. However, with all that has happened with the flood and the temporary displacement of classrooms and students we have decided to put a temporary hold on the activity reports. Thank you for your patience. As mentioned previously, every one of our classrooms are being effected in some way and we feel it is most important that the teachers energy be placed on providing structure and support to the students. Thank you for your understanding.
- The Silent Journey is postponed until further notice.
- We anticipate that the Halloween Carnival will still happen and more details about it will be available Monday.
Enjoy the remainder of your unexpected break in this most beautiful fall weather.
With deep gratitude,
MCS Administration
Trying to keep more mess out of their classroom
- The road is still not fixed at the school’s entrance. We are hopeful that it will be fixed by the weekend.
- At this time the building has no heat. (We are grateful for the warm weather!) We hope to have a temporary boiler in place by Monday. It will be a smaller unit that will heat our upstairs. We will have to purchase a new boiler and hope that the transition will be as unobtrusive as possible. We have some temporary heaters to supplement the heat from this smaller unit until the new boiler is in place.
- We are working on a list for volunteer opportunities. So many of you have been so generous with your offers to help. Up to this point we have not known areas where you can assist. However, we anticipate that we will need assistance in the future. Once we have created this list we will share it with you.
FLOOD/SCHOOL CLOSURE UPDATE
Thank you again to all who have offered to come to the school to help. There are already a lot of staff who are here trying to work around the cleaning staff so we do not feel we can direct many more hands. Thank you for the kind offers. We have been informed that there are families who are still looking for child care for their children. If you are willing to help in this capacity please let us know and we will try to get you in touch with families who are still searching for child care.
- We’ve had another confirmation that we are not dealing with sewage or pesticide contaminants. There are no microbial issues and the water does not pose any health risk. The water that flooded the school contained soil, dirt, bark, etc. but the word “contamination” in this sense simply means the items are dirty.
- We are still waiting for information about the boiler repairs. There is nothing new to report and the boiler is not currently working.
- Our power has been restored. (YAY! Light has been very helpful.)
- The road outside the school is torn up and is closed at both ends of the block. We are hopeful that they will lay new asphalt on Thursday or Friday and the road should open over the weekend.
Flood Relief Fund

